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Communication Breakdown
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Communication Breakdown Communication Breakdown LadyU had an interesting blog about the basic components of good communication, sender, receiver and medium, and the many problems we face in trying to communicate with each other. Of course this got me to thinking. I know I can be a very effective communicator in the sense that I send information well and can successfully manipulate many mediums to achieve my goals. How do I know that I�m a good sender of communication? I was very successful in college and the workplace with presentations, papers and lectures. Generally, if I understand it, I can find a way to explain it so that my audience understands it as well. I worked with adoptive parents as a birth mother to try to help them understand the other side of the issue, I worked with animal rescues of all kinds to help people take better care of their pets or surrender them to people who could care for them. I think the best test of my ability to communicate effectively was as a middle school science and social studies teacher. My learned what I tried to teach them and I wasn�t teaching in a gifted school or class. Sometimes it took several various ways of presenting the information for the light bulbs to go on but I had some of the highest overall grades and test scores in my school. I�ve always love teaching things I love to others. As a young adult, I was a great listener. That�s how I survived multiple abusive homes. I listened to the sick, the crazy, the mad, and the downtrodden and found a way to use what I heard to survive whatever got thrown at me. I didn�t talk a lot about my own personal horror stories to many, other than the therapists I was supposed to, but I sure listened to more than my share: My grandmothers were both nurses that were staunchly pro-choice b/c of the horrors they had seen from botched abortions. They made sure I knew in graphic detail what procedures were available and what exactly they were. My father is Jewish; I was well educated on the horrors of the Holocaust. War stories from my dad, uncles and their friends of the atrocities they lived through while serving in Vietnam, a great uncle�s Korea war stories and his life long drug withdrawals, several family members with various drug addictions, my sister�s memories of us both being sexually abused that surfaced for her only as an adult but I relived them with her b/c I wouldn�t let her think she was going crazy. I don�t read horror stories anymore b/c I know the ones people live through aren�t entertaining. True horror is horrific and nothing to enjoy reading, but that doesn�t mean there aren�t lessons to be learned. By sheltering our young people from seeing the true atrocity of a situation we neglect to teach them how to avoid that and protect the innocent from these things happening again. The area I�m not a great communicator in is relationships. I am a quick learner and a great teacher but taking the time to wade through how someone else is feeling is difficult for me. Especially if that person is either unsure of themselves or has problems expressing themselves. I make my own decisions easily and rarely have regrets. I�m very sure of myself and how I feel and express myself with ease. Unfortunately, that doesn�t always translate well with other people. Maybe that�s why I like being alone with my pets. animals are easy to understand, they don�t have difficulty expressing themselves and are rarely ambivalent about anything. Another big plus, they don�t lie. If an animal loves you, you know it, they show and they act on that. I like that. I like knowing where I stand. As another sexy female blogger pointed out recently the words �I love you� are thrown around far too casually for my liking and rarely backed up by actions that attest to the words. Loving people isn�t about saying the words; it�s really about showing it. When you truly love someone, you do what is right, even when it hurts. As a parent, a pet owner, a responsible adult we have to do things that aren�t easy for us but are the right thing for our loved ones. Seems to me there�s too much �I love you� and not enough this is what�s best for you. Love isn�t about buying everything you can for someone; it�s about giving yourself to that person and helping them achieve their full potential. My point is that I need to work on being more patient with the people I love and make some more friends. We all need more friends. OK, I�m getting off the soapbox now. Sorry for the boring philosophical rant. I got to spend a couple of days last week with hubby and his family at a lake house on Lake Lanier. One of my younger cousins and his GF came and pet/house sat for me and it worked out really well so I know I have someone to watch the animals next time I need to go somewhere without them. That�s a big relief. I was -less those few days, which was nice for my stress levels. We managed to get in a couple of great sex sessions even with (his 3 girls and niece) across the hall. It�s hard for me to be that quiet so I truly deserve some props for my silent sex sessions! The 1st night I got there, I got in late. MM had already blown his cum for the day since he didn�t know I was going to be able to come up, so he treated me to an extra long lick, finger and rabbit fest. It took me forever to finally reach that last O b/c I was trying so hard to be quiet. The next morning he woke me up with a glorious hard on. He says it�s like having another woman in his hands since I lost 22 lbs and I�m not sure he doesn�t miss the extra ass. In one way I miss it too, less cushion makes his cock hit bottom faster than it used to. Ok so I have to adjust the angle a bit or I have cock in my kidney. I had to bury my face in a pillow for that doggy session or the entire lake would have heard me cumming. Even better I got to go back to sleep for a couple of hours. We also had an<b> afternoon quickie </font></b>that got interrupted by one of the skinning her knee on the steps and one other late night round of great sex before we all had to leave Sat morning. Of course, it couldn�t all be sex and love fest. We had to fight over parenting and the last night, so no sex. With the in the house and us the only adults there was no way we would be having any sex during the daylight hours. Seems the 2 of us can�t co-parent to save our lives. I�m looking forward to free weekends together now that school has started back. We�re great together when we�re free. I had hopes MM would come back to visit this weekend while we are both free but doesn�t look like he can make it and I�m not going to be free until Sat afternoon b/c of my youngest niece�s 3rd birthday party. Hopefully, Lil Bit will not get sick at this party and we will have a better time. She and I spent all day yesterday running errands in the nearest city, had a rare lunch together, took a dip at her dad�s pool and did the grocery shopping so she has lunches and snacks for school starting back next week. She says she�s ready to go back to school, bored with summer. Can you believe it? I NEVER wanted to go back to school and we never got to spend every other week going to a water park 2-3 times a week. She�s been to Al. Adventure probably 12 times and 6 Flags twice this summer, 2 concerts, not to mention the pools, and a couple of trips to the lake tubing. I would spend my whole summer at home, reading, watching TV, maybe a couple of trips to the river and if I was lucky my grandparents in Long Island would get me for a couple of weeks and I never wanted to go back to school. Anyway, she�s all set to go back. My mom called today to say she had gotten her a new backpack. She & I spent this morning getting her room cleaned and uniforms out of the closet and into her drawers. Actually, I was very proud of her, she spent over an hour cleaning her room this morning before I even got up and she didn�t wake me up. She had to clean her room or she couldn�t go sleep over at her cousins house like she wanted, but it was still a big accomplishment for her to do it without me supervising every second. We go to meet her teacher on Tuesday and she starts back on Wednesday. I�m really glad she�s excited about going back. I�m kind of sad it�s our last week of summer together. We spent so much time traveling back and forth to B-ham it just flew by before we knew it. We have passes to go to Wild animal Safari that I won on the radio a while back, so we will be doing that this week. I�ve finished my antibiotics and am feeling pretty good so she & I can spend some quality time together this last week. She�s growing up so fast and I don�t want to let this special time of her still being a little girl slip by. Well sexy folks, that�s about it from here. I�m going to go take a nap and enjoy the quiet house for the night. I really miss my GF, sexy MrsS. There�s been lots of booby pics from blogfests and swinging on my favorite blogs and that has really made me miss having a great woman to play with. You guys have some sexy fun for me. Looks like it�s just me and my rabbit for the next few weeks�lol�good thing I have my 2 handsome Danes to cuddle in bed with me at night or I might get lonely. Enjoy what�s left of the summer! Kisses, LeeAnn  Kisses, LA    |
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Nice photo. Kisses
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8/13/2010 4:25 am |
id say your communication skill set is very good...and I'm glad you had fun...we have a rabbit and dolphin...its fun for a guy to use either on his girlfriend or wife...take her to the edge then bring her back...Aliss has actually yelled at me to stop fucking around...but i love to watch them squirm...the best use of a rabbit is in a 69...hit the sweet spot from two angles...yeah I'm a dirt bag and no you really were not ranting because your right...if you really do love someone then you do the responsible thing...and that's not always the popular thing...have a great weekend there's a thin line between nationalism and fascism....
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