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So many questions, so little answers  

partygald 41F
3081 posts
7/14/2018 12:41 am

Last Read:
8/13/2018 5:06 am

So many questions, so little answers


Hooberstank. I just heard them through the speakers at the gym this morning. They didn't stink. I wonder who Hoober is? And do I now refer to them as a one-hit wonder? I'm sure they had other hits...I just don't know them. Would they then be counted as hits? I wonder if they're still around...soo many questions....

I unearthed an old pair of Nike workout tights this morning and wore them to the gym. I left the house thinking they fit really nicely, and was so proud of myself for finding them again. Kinda like a new buy, yet not. Warmed up, still, the tights felt great. Midway through the workout, it all came back to me, why I had put them away. I was doing intervals today and one box jump after another, my tights started sliding down. So I tugged them up, and folded the top down. I had to fold it down twice and it was still loose. No big deal, right? I got through the workout and was on my own warming down and I caught my own reflection in the mirror and thought, yeah. Cos I had pulled my tights so far up it was literally hugging every crevice of my ass. And I thought, yeah....made my butt look great! LOL

I found a space on the floor to stretch and midway through that, it hit me. Cos I've been tugging my tights up my ass, the front would have been tugged up too. And lo-and-behold, cameltoe I thought about it for 2 seconds before deciding to fuck it. I was done anyway, so I took another 10 minutes to finish my stretch before hitting the showers. Which brings me to:

Super hairy lady
I stepped out of the showers and was greeted (ok, maybe wasn't greeted. But it certainly caught my attention) by the biggest bush ever. Like Amazonian jungle bush. Forest. She looked like she was in her late 40s. And strangely enough, I felt a little self conscious. Me and my hairless pussy. LOL It's super strange cos I've never felt that way before....but for some reason, seeing that jungle made me self conscious. Ah well.

Then to make things worse, I felt like I had to go talk to her about it. I felt compelled to. Like I wanted to ask her if she trips it. Like how long has she left it to grow? Has she ever taken it off? I texted the husband, who was waiting outside for me, telling him about it. And he told me to NOT approach her. lol. Apparently it's socially a "faux pas" to approach another gym goer nude in the lower room.
I wanted to, but I didn't. Now those questions will forever go unanswered...

Mutual cheating
Oh! Moving on to something a lil more....freaky. Well, to me at least. I've been catching up with an old friend of mine this past week. Just messaging each other on the phone. It came up that she was married now, so I asked if she married the guy she was with when we were working together. Turns out, she didn't marry that boyfriend of her. I then found out (well, she told me....I didn't pry. I swear ) that they had dated for a few years, and had serially cheated on each other.

It came to a point where it was tit-for-tat, and it just kept escalating. So in the end, she sat him down and asked him if he wanted t settle down. If they did, the cheating had to stop. She even suggested an open relationship, and all things considered, I thought it was where they were headed anyway. He then told her he can't settle down with her cos he can't trust her. -_- Like seriously? But I guess it was fair enough. If he can't move past what was already done, then I guess its never gonna work.

And THEN, here comes the kicker, she sends me a family photo, and I find that the current husband, looks very much like her ex!! Fuck! This is x-files shit. But I guess if you know you like a certain type, the nall your partners are all gonna be looking alike...right?

Shit....this is some thick, Freudian thingamajig. Too much for a weekend. I'm just gonna leave it here.

What I will squeeze in is a little gripe. Left my last blog pointing out quite inconspicuously how I needed a good fuck. Well, sad to say that hasn't happened. Ive got one more opportunity to get that right tonight cos the husband leave tomorrow for a pretty long work trip.

Now, as simple as that may seem, I am caught in a quandary. The husband has been cranky AF the last week. Moody and basically acting like a complete jerk. I'd like to address his behaviour of the past weeks, but that would require time and energy. IF we do this, it could go completely south and fuck up (poor choice of words, I know) any chance of a good fuck. IF it goes well, it would also sap both our energies and potentially ruin the chance of a good fuck. IF I let it be, or try and let it go, we go about with our lives like the past week didn't happen, then I may be able to...manoeuvre us into a situation where I actually can finally get a good fuck. But will I be able to truly enjoy it, feeling like I've been treated poorly?

Know what I mean? Shit. Gotta think fast on this one. Ok, I'm out. Got my work cut out for me.
Again, thanks for reading y'all. I'm out.

partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/14/2018 12:43 am

And no, I do not have a compulsion....I just need...a...good....dick ride
Wish me luck!!

And have a good weekend!


ClitLickB4DickU 65M  
1392 posts
7/14/2018 1:06 am

"Nice Bush Lady" ............ I think you have Sexual Aspergers' Symdrome

I have an older Chinese friend who has had a series of much younger FB's over the last few years........ and they ALL look like his wife used to


badteacherAK 67M  
1522 posts
7/14/2018 1:36 am

Hey Heidi. Nice post. As usual.

You and your and man seem to be very well tuned to each other. I recall a story a few weeks ago, where he walked in on you and the boyfriend in flagrante. Most guys would have walked up and put their cocks in your mouth. He, instead, set about augmenting your pleasure with his mouth and hands. That seemed very appealingly selfless. I know he got his later, but not a lot of guys would be willing or able to postpone like he did.

I get that there is friction in marriage. Been there. Done that. Given all the balls you two are juggling (boyfriends, group activities, etc.) I think you are remarkably well suited for each other. You get each other. Well enough to call bullshit when necessary. He seems like a very good match for you.

Of course that is different from being "perfect." What isn't?


Luv2Fuck187Pk 35M
28 posts
7/14/2018 2:32 am

That a relationship thats honest n allows them to choose each other even knowing all they know of each other that's how it should be and a relationship to me only should matter what the two partners think n desire of one another not what people think a relationship should be..a real n true one is wild unknown n live you can't control it so why try n controls the relationship..health growth I think thank u for sharing

28 years old DTF PAE....ALL DAY BABIE


funiithesun58 66M
1277 posts
7/14/2018 3:06 am

Hope for the best !


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
7/14/2018 4:32 am

Oh hey, I didn't even notice you in the gym! But seriously, I've been known to sport a pube afro from time to time. I've seen some at the nudist clubs tho that look like they could french braid them!

Good luck on getting the dick! \8


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
7/14/2018 4:48 am

Decided if you're going to wear those Nike tights again, or will they go into the back of the closet until you've forgotten about them, put them on and wondered why you stopped wearing them?

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
7/14/2018 6:58 am

Old tights can be dangerous like that my lady
- and I must admit I saw where it was going pretty early-
too bad there was no chance for a pic on that impressive attire

As for the husband,like someone says on the comments, you're attuned to
each other - a discussion should be in order

Cheers and good luck sating that Hunger

P


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/16/2018 2:11 am

    Quoting ClitLickB4DickU:
    "Nice Bush Lady" ............ I think you have Sexual Aspergers' Symdrome

    I have an older Chinese friend who has had a series of much younger FB's over the last few years........ and they ALL look like his wife used to
Oh damn...freaky


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/16/2018 2:12 am

    Quoting badteacherAK:
    Hey Heidi. Nice post. As usual.

    You and your and man seem to be very well tuned to each other. I recall a story a few weeks ago, where he walked in on you and the boyfriend in flagrante. Most guys would have walked up and put their cocks in your mouth. He, instead, set about augmenting your pleasure with his mouth and hands. That seemed very appealingly selfless. I know he got his later, but not a lot of guys would be willing or able to postpone like he did.

    I get that there is friction in marriage. Been there. Done that. Given all the balls you two are juggling (boyfriends, group activities, etc.) I think you are remarkably well suited for each other. You get each other. Well enough to call bullshit when necessary. He seems like a very good match for you.

    Of course that is different from being "perfect." What isn't?
I suppose....thanks for stopping by. And for the kind words


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/16/2018 2:12 am

    Quoting Luv2Fuck187Pk:
    That a relationship thats honest n allows them to choose each other even knowing all they know of each other that's how it should be and a relationship to me only should matter what the two partners think n desire of one another not what people think a relationship should be..a real n true one is wild unknown n live you can't control it so why try n controls the relationship..health growth I think thank u for sharing
Thank you


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/16/2018 2:18 am

    Quoting  :

Whoa!!! THAT is pretty interesting....and freaky. LOL
Wonder when he'll spot black hair and be in Bali
He's coming of age, but heck...I'd still jump on him. lol

thanks for stopping by


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/16/2018 2:19 am

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    Oh hey, I didn't even notice you in the gym! But seriously, I've been known to sport a pube afro from time to time. I've seen some at the nudist clubs tho that look like they could french braid them!

    Good luck on getting the dick! \8
LOL
I know right? Like if they draw it out by pulling on the ends, how long does it go?
Thanks for stopping by


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/16/2018 2:23 am

    Quoting MyBaffies:
    Decided if you're going to wear those Nike tights again, or will they go into the back of the closet until you've forgotten about them, put them on and wondered why you stopped wearing them?
LOL
I told myself to throw them out but it inadvertently got thrown into the laundry basket so.....I'll probably have the exact same problem at least one more time


partygald 41F
1963 posts
7/16/2018 2:23 am

    Quoting proteus_2a:
    Old tights can be dangerous like that my lady
    - and I must admit I saw where it was going pretty early-
    too bad there was no chance for a pic on that impressive attire

    As for the husband,like someone says on the comments, you're attuned to
    each other - a discussion should be in order

    Cheers and good luck sating that Hunger

    P
Haha! Thanks


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
8/13/2018 1:28 am

I have some clothing items that I shouldn't. A local charity accepts donations of clothing, whether they're usable or not; if they're usable, they sell them, and if not, they sell the cloth to recycling companies. Anyway, it seems inappropriate to drop things into the donation bin without first washing them, but sometimes things that are washed in preparation for donation end up back in the closet. At least I have a bag for things to be donated for recycling now, so when they come out of the closet and I find them in ruins they go into the cloth recycling bag. If I had usable clothes for donation, I'd make a point of marking a bag for that too, so I remember.

I like the natural and hairy look. Sure, I wouldn't turn down sex with a woman who shaved (as my wife has done for the novelty on occasion), but I like the natural look better. On the other hand, shaved has the benefit that I don't get loose hairs in my mouth when I go down on a woman. Worst is when shaved is just starting to grow back; then it's scratchy. It's still not going to stop me though, of course!

I suppose there are some people who go for the same look with partners, but I'm not one of them. My high school girlfriend was slender, with strawberry blonde hair. A short-term relationship in my 20s that I would have liked to have been long-term was with a slender woman with long, curly black hair. My first wife was thick, with straight, medium-brown hair (that she sometimes dyed red because I liked it when she did so). My evil ex-girlfriend was thin, and had medium-brown skin and curly black hair (but she typically wore straight black hair extensions). My wife now is fairly slender, has brown hair, and dyes it red except when it gets brittle from the dye; she likes it red, and I like it red. I do like red hair (and the strawberry blonde was nice too), but there's a lot of variation in the women I've been attracted to.


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