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The web we weave  

Katattack8611 38F
23 posts
12/10/2007 2:52 pm
The web we weave


So this weekend was interesting for me, at least the start of it.
As I mentioned before, I was heading out for the weekend with friends in hopes of catching the first snow of the season. That didn't work out as planned but was still a blast. Well before we left I got a call from one of my boys. He's one of my older 'friends' and lives down in Seattle. His whole life revolves around his boat, thing is a beast and easily cost him at least a million $$. So he tells me that he's heading off down to Mexico for acouple months and needed some diving equipement that I had borrowed from him this summer. No problem, I'll drop it off at the boat before I head off for the mountains.

So...

I show up to the marina and hop on the boat to unload all the gear and quickly notice that there is a woman on the boat with me. Now this is a first for me as I have never seen him with anybody but me. So I was like Woah! Compitition! No biggy though, not like we were serious or commited and it's only natural to assume he's going to be seeing other women. So she comes up and greets me with a "Ah, Good morning Darling. I was wondering where that was." I'm thinking, +1 for awesome accent so I get to chit chatting with her while I'm unloading everything and I casually mention that I've never seen her around and wondered who she was.

Her reply, "I'm Elle, dear. Dave's Wife."

Now, I've been in 'relationships' where the guy failed to mention that he had a wife or girlfriend, or just flat out lied about it. In every situation I've just cut contact and forgot who the cheating bastard was. The problem here is that I knew about Ellenna, his wife. Except the story that I knew involved her having passed away from a lost battle with cancer. So I'm alittle pissed, ok really really pissed because in my mind this has crossed new boundaries for me that I feel should never be crossed. So I'm like "Huh, I could of sworn that Dave said you passed away..." and she gave me this perplexed look and came back with a "Don't be foolish, darling. When did he tell you that?"

"When he was picking me up at the bar."

The conversation I wouldn't say went south, I'd say it suddenly lost all friendliness and turned into a very cold professional meeting. But she took that bombshell damn well which kinda perplexed me. I guess I was kinda expecting more out of her, I even regretted how it came out after I said it, and it must of showed on my face because all I got out of her was "I see, seems we're back to square one. Lets talk."

So I ended up spending a good 3 hours talking to her. About my relationship with her husband, her relationship with her husband, her husband in general, and her in general. Seems she did indeed have cancer but has been a 5 year survivor. Also seems that I was the second time he cheated on her, first time was with a gal in California and it almost caused their divorce...but they got counseling and decided to stick it through. Or so she thought. I also found out that while I was allways under the impression that Dave was rather well off fiancially and retired, that in actual fact he was piss poor and leaching off of her. Seems he got injured at work when he tripped and fell down some stairs. Sued his employer, got some money, and basically blew it all on a new car. So effectively, when we went out on dates...it was on her card. The boat? Her's. In fact the only thing he had to his name was his Ferrari and even then, she was footing the insurance bill because he couldn't.
Either way, she said she was expecting it just because how he had been acting. I think the best part was when she called her lawyer and just said "Yep, he did it again. You have a green light, he's all yours now" and hung up. I'm like damn! She's got wolves in wait to tear him up!

It was a very interesting convo, almost odd to actually have a civilized talk with a person you know you just ruined the marriage of. Though now that I think about, I can see how such would be if there was no trust in the relationship. Which is just sad to think about. Either way, she decided that what she needed was a vacation in Mexico "minus her Ex" so, me being the I am I gave her the number of one of my friends who happens to be into older women and single. Talked to him before I left and now I can't seem to get ahold of him...so either he's on a yacht to Mexico or suddenly got really busy at work over the weekend.

Anyways, Dave has tried to call me acouple times. Even left a message on my voice mail apologizing for the lie and how his heart was allways with me and that he wanted to take me out to dinner to make up for it. I deleted the message, blocked his number, and cleared my cellphone. Thankfully he doesn't know where I live, because I'd so sick my rott on him. Gah, I just can't believe he'd lie like that. I mean, who the hell would cheat on a sugar momma like that? First off, she had a spectacular body that in no way showed her age. I mean, she's my mom's age yet looked like she could of been my older sister. So she takes good care of herself. Ontop of that, the way she mentioned the boat made it seem like the wad of bills she dropped on it was nothing more then pocket change so ya know she's loaded. Something like "Please, I didn't buy the yacht for him. My friends have them so I figured, why not?" I mean why would you cheat on that? And for her not to fly off the handle on that rather ill devised bombshell I dropped on her shows she's pretty kind hearted...cuz a bitch would of just put a hit out on me. Stupid, stupid man.

So that was my Friday!
At least it went uphill after that! How went the weekend for everybody else?

Stilllookin4ugrl 62M  
117 posts
12/30/2009 10:28 pm

Why did he think you would ever talk to him again after lying to you like that !!

Peace, David


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