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"What we have here is a lack of communication........." Your thoughts?
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OK..here is an update on the latest single guy to stand us up - scroll to the bottom and read these emails from the bottom up - it starts with our email to him asking what happened. Less than two hours later, we had a response (note how fast he was able to respond this time). The emails are reproduced here exactly as they appeared with the exception that his names, profile names and his phone number have been removed. So...his excuse for not responding for five days only came when we asked what happened (and came very quickly you will note...so, his excuse that his new laptop wasn't working right didn't hold water for us...what do you think? We don't need to respond to his emails anymore...besides, he thinks we're just Republican's anyway! But we are interested in seeing if any of you would have even sent an email inquiring what happened or what you would have done? (If any of you couples want to know who this fellow is so you can avoid him, send us a private email...) Keep in mind, this is a single guy who wants to play with couples. You couples know how many single guys are out there (we don't need to tell you), so isn't this guy being a bit counterproductive? We removed his name and identifiers including locations - we have no interest in slamming this guy....just looking for honest opinions. If you were or are a single guy, would you have responded in this way? ******************************************************************** "I did everything I could possibly do to meet this Friday night. I provided a means to communicate (Find a Cougar message & cell phone), an exact location & a reasonable explanation why I couldn't message you last Friday night (which happens to be true). I haven't got your cell phone # & you sent (when I was finally able to retrieve the last 2 messages) face pics at the last minute. And you wanted to meet @ a motel room without even having a face to face meeting first. How do I know that you would even show up at the motel room? Mental telepathy? I'm sorry but I like to have a plan. Have your clandestine 3somes with someone else...You sound like republicans anyway...LOL (name removed) --------------------------------------------------- > Sender: SexySWCouple > To: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx > Date: Aug 19, 2009 10:59 am PST > > (name removed), > > Thank you for writing back...we're going to wait on a possible meeting with you for now and give it some thought...our only problem is how easy you gave up trying to communicate with us until we wrote you. > > We don't expect much from this lifestyle (its all for fun as far as we're concerned) but at least we expect the same courtesy we give others....... > > On the other hand, we appreciate that you did reply to us...we'll have to let you know, but for sure, don't plan on meeting us this weekend. > > J&D > > > --------------------------------------------------- > > Sender: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx > > To: SexySWCouple > > Date: Aug 19, 2009 10:11 am PST > > > > > The explanation is: > > > > I got a new laptop. When I tried to message you 2 back Friday night it would not lock on to the internet & all weekend it did the same thing, back & forth, on & off. And when I wanted to message any1 especially on Find a Cougar it would just go down. > > > > So I just gave up for a few days & now it works fine. For how long it works is anybody's guess. But I didn't know how to explain it to you because this is a society full of people that assume & they are confident their assumptions are correct. > > > > If you want to try again this Friday I will get a room @ the Laquinta Inn beside Walmart & behind Cracker Barrel right off (location removed). My cell # is xxxxxxxxxxx. Call me Friday afternoon around 3pm Mountain Time because EP is Central Time. > > > > I will either return your call or message you through Find a Cougar with the room #. I'm not getting the room until I get confirmation because this has happened to me before too. Too many times. If not... HAPPY TRAILS! > > > > (name removed) > --------------------------------------------------- > > Sender: SexySWCouple > > To: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx > > Date: Aug 19, 2009 8:42 am PST > > > > (name removed), > > > > We're always curious why people get to the point where they are ready to meet and then just stop communicating. > > > > We assume there is something you couldn't tell us...or you just got scared of meeting us. > > > > Either way, a quick email would have been a common courtesy...just ignoring us isn't the right response.
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8/29/2009 8:24 am |
I can understand getting cold feet. It happens to us all from time to time. But simply not showing up or communicating after wards is bad form. There have been times when, upon reflection, I've changed my mind about pursuing an adventure. Maybe that's flaky, and I may not give specifics about what caused the change (I may not know completely myself), but I always try and communicate my intentions or the lack thereof. Nothing is worse than leaving the other side hanging, wondering if anything will develop. In most cases, honesty IS the best policy.
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9/4/2009 4:15 pm |
Hi you two, I hate to say it, but,..."Don't sweat the small stuff",... he just isn't worth it,...and after all excuses are for children, and this is an adult site, so I would forget him, though this is just my opinion. Oh and great pic by the way, m mmm, his loss after all eh ! Have fun out there, Yours Blue, with a wee kiss for the lady, x
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Had several similar experiences. Sometimes i get a response after I delete them from my message board
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