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Blogs > Rabbit99 > The Ugly Duckling

Knowing one's limits?  

Rabbit99 58M
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3/23/2009 12:50 am

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Knowing one's limits?

I know by now after reading the last 2 posts you're thinking "this guy is really the worst", and so on. But when I created this blog that was the intention, to tell it like it is for most men I know, no matter the consequences. And no, I'm not so demanding with every woman or do I need all that to be in a happy relationship. Wrote before men learn with time and failed connections not to be so demanding. But there are certain limits, or is it so bad to ask for sex 2 or 3 times a week?
It's known that men and women decrease their sexual appetite with age. It actually varies with each day or depending on the stimulus. For instance, I'm sure most males feel the crave for it more when they're not working. Logically it's affected by one of the many email messages exchanged between a group, and as noted before it can be sparked just by walking the streets or if a female colleague suddenly appears at work more sexy than usual.
What I really can't understand is how there are couples living together for decades without having sex, or just doing it twice a year, or once every 3 months. Not so many years ago I had a long-term relationship with a thai girl I really liked and I still miss, but the lack of sex for a maximum of 2 months drove me crazy, many times couldn't even sleep. That's also the main reason I could never be alone for too long in between relationships. Anyway, many times I wondered how can one just even sleep beside someone gorgeous that one adores, without wanting to touch her?

asoingles2007 60M
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3/23/2009 2:45 am

 When a couple isn't having sex with each other; usually they're having it with others. I know, because I've humped females who were married or living with some guy, and had tight vaginas as if she was a virgin! My ex-wife became an ex because she had little interest in sex...with me that is. We averaged a frequency of .5 time a week (less than my late Father; who was dying from prostate cancer at the time)!

Withholding sex is really just passive-aggressive nonsense. If a person won't have sex with their spouse; they should expect them to cheat. Somehow, their infidelity is always a surprise.


Rabbit99 replies on 3/23/2009 10:02 pm:
Thanks for checking my blog, you're welcome back anytime.
I agree with most of what you worte, but I think a couple living together for 10 or more years don't have much sex just because they lost interest on it. Or at least the woman did, the guy is bored with the situation and looking somewhere else.

rm_kathyron4 36F
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3/23/2009 1:49 am

 sadsad


Rabbit99 replies on 3/23/2009 9:57 pm:
Thanks for checking my blog, you're welcome back any time.

rm_kathyron4 36F
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3/23/2009 1:49 am

 asdsad


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