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Idiots & liars  

puretillnow 42F
22 posts
2/1/2017 1:39 am
Idiots & liars


Why do people send emails saying thanks for looking at my profile when they know damn well that I haven't. Do they think I'm stupid enough to fall for that dumb ass approach? I hate liars and if you cant be honest with me in your very first email then there is zero chance that I am going to respond.

An honest straight forward (not crude) email stands a far better chance of attracting my attention. It just shows how lazy and dumb men can be sometimes. So send me a nice email with a bit of thought in it and not just a one liner "wanna meet and fuck" and who knows. Please also don't use text speak and bad grammar either it doesn't give the impression your going to be an intelligent and interesting person to speak with as well.

Hey ho, rant over

greekphilosopher 61M
4077 posts
2/1/2017 3:59 am


Rhand007 is right. There are servers on this place, that when they feel like it, run wild. They generate profiles, notices that someone has messaged you, and how you can join up to read the non existing mail, views, flirts, hotlists, and everything else you can think of. Some times, ( more than some ) they can even impersonate a real person from customer services ! I suppose they have to try and make their wages somehow.
But then again, everything is possible in here. Even real humans, impersonating the servers !


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s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/1/2017 5:34 am

It's hard to believe that someone has to tell people how to act,what to say and
any other common sense proper human interaction guideline.Then turn around and settle for them.

Using more than all the road!


Stay_In_Reality 56M  
2209 posts
2/1/2017 5:41 am

Sometimes profile views are generated purely by seeing someone on your homepage or on a list somewhere, like the list of those that have viewed your profile. The only way to avoid any confusion is to go to your accounts page, click on "privacy preferences" then scroll down and under 'Viewing Activity Visibility' check the circle next to........ 'I would like to become 'invisible' and view profiles discreetly. ' then save changes at the bottom of the page, that way you won't appear as viewing anyone's profile!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/1/2017 6:30 am

    Quoting  :

"Views" are also generated when a cursor rolls over a member's pic.

And yes, assuming is generally not a good thing, learning is a better alternative.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
2/1/2017 6:47 am

    Quoting  :

Agreed, the purpose of the "views" situation is to get guys to fork up the bucks for the membership. If a lot of women view them then, it is like you said and the guy has to follow his . . . urge.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


shananbil 54M/50F
51 posts
2/1/2017 9:52 am

There are some idiots out there just gotta weed thru them


NewJohnSilver202 79M
1 post
6/30/2021 9:35 am

You are one Smart Lady. You must have a pocket full of Bitcicoins if youn can sit on youe cute butt all day kicking the male species into submission.
There are some interesting comments here.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. Red Rock Rascal
Stay in Reality advised you well
the Greek Philosopher more good adviice
Ifollowed all of your creed, offered you what I thought was a solution and you told me to fuck off.
i am am still here!

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