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FWB  

badpappy 58M  
13 posts
11/2/2016 5:53 am
FWB

Ok so your looking for a FWB type of situation, cool so now what is your definition of a FWB? Well here's mine:
A friend, a lover & just someone to hang out with. Like every thing, ppl have different ideas of this. So I figured I would just blog about mine. Since I'm a retired army guy who has his days free I want a FWB so I could just got have lunch with, a movie or stroll through the park on a beautiful day or just hanging out somewhere having just time to talk about anything. I'm a Worley guy heck after 21 years in the service I've got lots of stuff and knowledge that I can hold a decent conservation. Now to the "benefits", my thought after a few hours of just doing friends stuff it can be time to have some wonderful sex, the kissing and playing with each other, for me foreplay is a must! This is the kissing, touching and the oral pleasures. Now main event is good but it's great after the right foreplay.
Now I think contact with your FWB is a must and it's not always face to face, it's also the daily texting or KIK'n that keeps you connected and the added pleasure of the excitement till your able to see each other again.
Ideally I would like a married lady , no matter her situation, just like myself, who is needing the friend in her life and not looking to change our status or marriage.. But cpl's are cool too who just want a str8 guy for a FWB. Now I'm not ruling out the single ladies but I'm Very honest and open as to my status.
So now all you Find a Cougar'ers what are your thoughts?

spewonme2 60F  
15 posts
2/25/2018 8:42 pm

 the situation you describe sounds ideal. Usually the guys I have encountered that agreed to a FWB only wanted a booty call. They didn't want to invest the time for the friendship part that you described.


lust4life59 65F  
2552 posts
8/12/2020 4:07 am

 I alawys look at it, if you can't be friends without the "benefits", then it's really just a fuck buddy. And sometimes the real benefit is in being a friend. Sex is easy to find friends, no so much.


jajo696 113F
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4287 posts
2/20/2021 7:37 am

 Yes......your description is very very nice and doable, if you find the right person. I was taught that someone in your similar situation is ideal, as you run the same risks. Happy searching.....someone for everyone here ~


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