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Men, what do you find more attractive on a woman?  

sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/12/2015 11:33 am

    Quoting StangCobra:
    I watched my wife walk by my apt and I would check out her fine body. I didn't know her but I found her physically appealing. I got to know her and found her to be the kindest person I have ever known. It will be 10years of marriage next month and if I didn't find her attractive I wouldn't have continued. After I met her, her personality and our common interests have kept us together.
Congrats!!!!

I'd bet the majority is this way.


needafwb13 64M
128 posts
6/12/2015 12:55 pm

Usually the first thing any of us has is a physical attraction, i.e. you see someone on the street or in a store and your hooked. But as many of us can probably attest to that attraction can were off fast if there is no personality or some very strange behavior behind those great looks!


lookin4herMI 46M
152 posts
6/12/2015 1:51 pm

Have to vote for physical beauty, because after all if I'm not attracted to her it's a no go, but in saying that her attitude plays just as large a role in that decision, so you're not playing fair.


me39hornxxy 52M
1 post
6/12/2015 1:56 pm

Truth is what we notice first is always the physical stuff but that attraction is very short lived for me if she has a nasty personality and few interests that we can pursue together.


man4u2dew 66M
1 post
6/12/2015 1:57 pm

Physical attributes more immediately obvious. Personality leaves a more lasting impression...but can take time to surface. I know that I have lost at times by rejecting the body before discovering the heart.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
6/12/2015 3:00 pm

If a woman can't carry a conversation, and doesn't have a sense of humor, time to move on, don't care what the rest of her looks like.


HappyChick43 52F  
1042 posts
6/12/2015 4:53 pm

If we didn't have the ability to post pictures online, only blogs. What would be the attraction?
A person's ability to express themselves through writing/typing.
I've done exactly this on one other site..no pic just me chatting. I find it more interesting drawing someone's humour and personality out than I do pictures, as most aren't current pics and the camera adds weight.
So for me, expression. How they act and react to conversation. The flow.
Our minds are our best features, good, bad or ugly!


extra1980 61M
301 posts
6/12/2015 5:04 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree with you. How can some one be attracted to a person personality and interests if they have never met that person. For me it start with physical attraction, I have to see something about that person that make me want to talk to them. After that comes personality and interests.


slapstick74 49M
35 posts
6/12/2015 7:58 pm

If they have no personality/interests it won't last no matter how hot. But it can't be too far the other way either. This is more of a sliding scale. The hotter you are the less your personality can be. The better your personality the less important looks can be. Too far either way and it's a bust.


ArkSoutherngent5 70M  
910 posts
6/12/2015 9:28 pm

Personality and their Eyes. The eyes tell a lot about a person


narada1976 48M
7 posts
6/12/2015 11:18 pm

quite interesting


cozzycouple 66M/66F  
588 posts
6/13/2015 4:02 am

A - the body / beauty comes before B - personailty. If your not an "visual" noticeable "A" then what is it about "B" that is "visual" - nothing. Its the finality of "B" that clinches the attraction.......in most cases. Not known too many sober blokes to go chasing ugly women because of their visual personality.


anything4u58 65M
18 posts
6/13/2015 5:29 am

Physical absolutely .That is what attracts you .Personality is what keeps you........later .huggs


Mic2004U2 68M
32 posts
6/13/2015 7:38 am

you know it is not quite fair to have only two choices. What about sexual preferences, lol?


bamaguy37 57M
28 posts
6/13/2015 8:51 pm

The sexies tihing I have saw on a woman...ME happym;

My true love is out there somewhere


Melon_guy 67M/66F
45 posts
6/13/2015 11:46 pm

I think personality, but more specifically she has to be horny & naughty ! Since U chat or IM on here, I wanna know she's got a dirty mind. Big girls need lovin too ! If she can tell me what she would do to me & read what I would do 4 her, she's not 4 me...


craven_nc 54M  
79 posts
6/14/2015 5:40 am

to me attractive are her physical attributes, but sexy is her personality, intellect, interests, willingness to explore, etc.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:03 am

    Quoting cherrycokepdx77:
    Personality and interests for sure. Yes look are important too, but when it comes down too, id rather date someone who has similar interests with a good personality before someone with great looks, but nothing in common.
Me too ---


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:04 am

    Quoting  :

I've known some of these people as well --- looks definitely aren't everything.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:06 am

    Quoting _JKH_:
    Must have a good personality.
I'm a personality above looks girl ---- 100%. I don't even notice the looks until I see the personality in words or, otherwise.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:07 am

    Quoting sirtonguesmith69:
    I would love to be PC on this one but sorry, attraction starts with appearance
Smiles. Thank you.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:09 am

    Quoting firedup_19:
    pretty hard to get a sense of the heart and soul of a person on here, from the limited information available on most profiles, so Find a Cougar is more of a catalog of toys to try and possibly keep for future future play... New toys are what Find a Cougar is all about.
For most, I agree --- but not for all. You watch a few blogs long enough and the heart and soul shine through ---- as it does through conversation and emails.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:11 am

    Quoting  :

A good personality brings out those good looks, doesn't it?


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:12 am

    Quoting Melon_guy:
    I think personality, but more specifically she has to be horny & naughty ! Since U chat or IM on here, I wanna know she's got a dirty mind. Big girls need lovin too ! If she can tell me what she would do to me & read what I would do 4 her, she's not 4 me...
She's not for you or she is?


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:13 am

    Quoting Mic2004U2:
    you know it is not quite fair to have only two choices. What about sexual preferences, lol?
Just consider those under, "interests"


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