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Why are we here?  

Fillmy3 49F
21 posts
3/11/2016 8:47 pm
Why are we here?

So I've been an off and on member here for years. Like over 10 years or more. And over the years I've been fortunate to make several friends. A couple of them are very very close and I don't mean only sexually. I mean real honest to goodness friends. And then in more resent years I've meet a couple of more friends. They maybe aren't as close but I can say they aren't bad guys. But today I was made to feel bad because I have multiple sex partners... Isn't that why we are on here? To meet people and find friends? I practice safe sex and check out my partners. I don't want one timers. I prefer long term friends. Am I such a bad person? I just enjoy the feeling of a man. And not all men have sex the same. I cherish each friend different because of how they make me feel inside during our time. Am I really so bad. Do I need to re-evaluate myself? Should I back off?

A1LOVER2004 50M  
177 posts
3/11/2016 9:03 pm

 WHY WOULD YOU EVEN CARE ABOUT WHAT "1" JERK OFF SAYS?


Desir4Fire 49M
2387 posts
3/11/2016 9:16 pm

 This site is about finding love and getting love, in what every form of love you want. Enjoy it, let the jerks keep stepping!!


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
3/11/2016 11:51 pm

 The attributes people had that make up who they are aren't even considered anymore and most are obsolete.So screw em' if ya got em' there's plenty more available.
Using more than all the road!


RA_2010 54M  
6 posts
3/16/2016 2:41 pm

 You are not bad and you do not need to re-evaluate yourself. As long as you are up front that you are sleeping with multiple partners and above all practicing safe sex there is no problem. Also as long are you are considerate and don't 'blow off' one person just to meet another then there should be no problem either. If someone is making you feel bad for having multiple partners then you need to determine if that is someone you want to continue having a relationship with. I'd definitely like to chat sometime, my kik is red91769


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