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Has dignity been lost?  

rm_antiquefart 79M
10 posts
10/17/2015 2:21 pm
Has dignity been lost?

Why is it that between sexual partners within this site it seems necessary to talk about "Plowing a Ass" or "Blowing a Load" down a throat or even gagging someone with your girth? Why does there seem to be no common desire for intimacy rather than just brute lust and what appears to be degradation? As a life long Heterosexual I never considered treating a sexual partner to that type of dialogue. Rather there was a sharing and common desire for affection that predominated. Are all bi and Homosexual encounters viewed as such brutal and undignified activities? Can someone more experienced share their thoughts?

rickyspanish76 48M
7843 posts
10/17/2015 2:43 pm

 good question....


ERoosevelt 55F
299 posts
10/17/2015 3:02 pm

 I am new to the site (not more experienced), and as a woman was taken aback by the pics of dripping vaginas, crude tag lines, and absurd unsolicited approaches by (hetero, btw) males who want to chat - lines like "I want to make you cum.". Really? Whatever happened to, "Hi, my name is Bob.". However, being surprised at the lack of dignity on this site is akin to asking why people don't dress up for NASCAR events or why kindergarteners don't act more mature. This appears to be a site where people seek mates who are likeminded to themselves. Hopefully, there are many respectful people like yourself here who can find each other (I'm also seeking such). But clearly, the people whose sex life involves explicit language and games of dominance are hoping to find their mates as well. Hope that helps!


rm_antiquefart 79M
3 posts
10/17/2015 3:36 pm

 Its not bashing at all. I've developed a desire for an intimate relationship with another man. I've found that I find graphic photos arousing. What i don't find interesting is the crude way in which many folks seem to approach these encounters. I'm really trying to understand. I've not experienced in the Bi/Gay community and I have no way of knowing if this is the norm or just more internet BS.


Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
10/19/2015 5:47 am

 because this site tends to focus on the 'get laid tonight' aspect, some, surprise, surprise, mostly men, cut to the chase. on the other end of the spectrum are those seeking long term scenarios, which are often criticized as "dont they know this is a sex site?". we see some females, couples whom indicate the female rquires some level of seduction....we fall in the middle...we are not inspried by the 'drop trou, drop load' group and we have no interest in seducing anyone...or being seduced....however, as there will likely more conversation than 'are we gonna fuck' we seek those whom demonstrate they are capable of a bit o' lust combined with the appropriate time and place.

as for bi/gay men...pretty simple, when drawn down to its base component, men seeking sex with men, as you have found, can be more to the point. we cringe at those whom describe themselves as cum dumps, etc....but obviously that works for them.


rm_antiquefart 79M
3 posts
10/19/2015 6:05 am

 Very thoughtful answer, thanks alot. kinda explains things a bit.


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