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A stand against bullying
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A stand against bullying It's hard to face a bully. It doesn't matter if the bully is in your home or is outside. In your face or online. It's brings up feelings of hurt, anger and isolation. Sometimes you have to face your bully on your own. Sometimes you have back up. Standing up to a bully does help the person who is being bullied. It empowers them. If others are with them, it helps to forititify their sense of self. Yay. We got rid of the bully. We ran the bully out of town. But what about the next town? The next person the bully will come across? It's hard to face a bully. But it's harder to fix the root problem. Why is this person like this? What made them so negative, where they have to infect those around them with negativity? Negativity is like a cancer. If you let it grow, death follows. Do we help negativity grow by feeding into it? Or do we respond with positivity and choke it off at the root? Now I'm not saying, don't defend yourselves. What I'm saying is... If someone has a negative comment to say about you. Ask them why are you so unhappy? Why do you feel the need to hurt me as much as you must be hurting? Confront the issue. If you feel good about yourself, there is no need to make others feel bad. So if a person goes around making others miserable, then they must be miserable themselves. Yes you can just chase away the problem. But the problem just goes somewhere else. Disclaimer: Please dont think that I'm Miss Pollyanna ( I love that movie). If someone lay hands on me or mines, I will let all kinds of crazy out and whoop that ass. But at the end of the day, that the last resort. Hate begets hate. Understanding and communication goes a long way. My two cents I'm new, don't kill me P.S I have nothing that's pink 
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Great post! Thanks for speaking up!   Rachel Mae
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8/17/2016 6:00 pm |
My friend a great post on this tough subject. Hugs, Scott  {=}"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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Great post! Thanks for speaking up!
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Very well put. Hate begets more hate and the anger grows. I'm in my late 50's and put much of the blame on my generation. We were to self absorbed in our own wants and desires that our children suffered. And they took their anger out on others. And they raise their children like they were raised. Parents now days really don't do things with their kids. They leave it to TV or video games or social media to raise the kids. When is the last time you saw a dad outside playing baseball with his kids? Sad, very sad.
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My friend a great post on this tough subject. Hugs, Scott {=}
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8/17/2016 6:27 pm |
Hugs & Love to ya'
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I have been blessed with not having to deal with much bullying as I was growing up. My circle of friends was very close but also open to new girls as they came to town which could have helped somewhat. Standing up for myself has been one of my strengths but also standing up for others. Nothing makes a bully tuck tail and run more than a group ready to deal with her. Never give up the fight.
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Very nice message. I do see your point. thin gs need to be handle the best way possible.
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Very well written post on a very touching subject in today's world. Thank you. Please feel free to read my blog at Losnewf Thoughts
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Please do, I dont mind. I agree, we are responsible for our own behavior. But we can be the example on how to be
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Very well put. Hate begets more hate and the anger grows. I'm in my late 50's and put much of the blame on my generation. We were to self absorbed in our own wants and desires that our children suffered. And they took their anger out on others. And they raise their children like they were raised. Parents now days really don't do things with their kids. They leave it to TV or video games or social media to raise the kids. When is the last time you saw a dad outside playing baseball with his kids? Sad, very sad.
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Your post makes an excellent point... I have engaged the bully in question (mostly because it is really, REALLY hard to bully me, I'm more likely to laugh and poke fun back) and there isn't any dialogue back. That particular bully doesn't want anyone to engage them. She just wants to do as she pleases. She blocked me a long time ago, yet felt free to come over to my blog and make comments. I have never been rude back and genuinely would love a give-and-take conversation with her. Alas, somethings that I want just don't come to pass. Your last comment of "I'm new, don't kill me" made me laugh! Welcome! Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Your post makes an excellent point... I have engaged the bully in question (mostly because it is really, REALLY hard to bully me, I'm more likely to laugh and poke fun back) and there isn't any dialogue back. That particular bully doesn't want anyone to engage them. She just wants to do as she pleases. She blocked me a long time ago, yet felt free to come over to my blog and make comments. I have never been rude back and genuinely would love a give-and-take conversation with her. Alas, somethings that I want just don't come to pass. Your last comment of "I'm new, don't kill me" made me laugh! Welcome! Kitkat  Thanks.
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Great post, Nerdy! I knew I was watching you for good reason. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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