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Blogs > Patti_Kake > Patti's (Blog) Page

Maybe I Chose The Wrong Profile Pics!  

Patti_Kake 46F
605 posts
9/15/2016 2:05 pm
Maybe I Chose The Wrong Profile Pics!
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Have you ever felt overwhelmed? Sheesh!

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Come and visit me on my Blog, "Patti's (Blog) Page"Patti_Kake


Patti_Kake 46F
681 posts
9/15/2016 2:09 pm

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Oh well, I was warned about being deluged ..... but this is getting ridiculous!

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Come and visit me on my Blog, "Patti's (Blog) Page"Patti_Kake


playful1252 59M
11 posts
9/15/2016 2:23 pm

 ha ! most women on here are bombarded by so many mails and messages because of the lopsided, enrollment of males to females. I once was told it was like 50 to 1 .. I wonder if its still the same ?? more than likely I bet !


Patti_Kake replies on 9/16/2016 5:23 am:
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I don't know what the male to female ratio is, but from the messages I've received it's obvious that 'quantity' far outweighs 'quality'!

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surf_casting 58M
Ask me for a photo

9/15/2016 2:32 pm

 I took my profile picture down after being swamped, so I know how you feel.


Patti_Kake replies on 9/16/2016 5:33 am:
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Really?

I would have guessed from what I've read on these Blogs ... AND, your profile ... that as a guy that is 'married and sneaking around without his wife's knowledge', you wouldn't dare post a facial picture of yourself, and as a Standard male member, you don't receive any messages!

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1bighammer1000 59M
4304 posts
9/15/2016 2:41 pm

 You might be covered up with e mails but you have a great pic up and you are very easy on the eyes. Have a great day anyhow.
Anything worth doing is worth doing right


Patti_Kake replies on 9/16/2016 5:39 am:
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It would be a better day if I could receive one or two 'possible' messages instead of nothing but 'no f--king way' emails!

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HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
9/15/2016 2:53 pm

 your a sexy beautiful woman..... no surprise


Patti_Kake replies on 9/16/2016 5:47 am:
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Thank you, Herman!

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boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
9/15/2016 4:57 pm

 I think not!


Patti_Kake replies on 9/16/2016 5:51 am:
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I guess only time will tell whether or not those pics are attracting all of the 'wrong' guys or not.

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peterlikesplay2 67M
461 posts
9/15/2016 5:25 pm

 I feel your pain...lol


Patti_Kake replies on 9/16/2016 5:54 am:
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And I sense someone being facetious!

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affdude10 53M

9/15/2016 9:46 pm

 Yeah, I could see you getting hundreds of emails. Maybe they need to read your blog and respond instead of sending emails.


Patti_Kake replies on 9/16/2016 6:00 am:
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A great many of the emails I receive suggest that reading and writing are becoming a 'lost art' ... or, is it that most guys just look at the pictures?

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
9/16/2016 6:36 am

 You got a great profile pic. It really doesn't matter what you put up on here ie just a leg shot ...you will get lots of mail. Just the nature of the site. There is 100 guys to 1 female ratio on here.. Soon as you put on your profile your not meeting the mail will really slow down. hugsssssss V
Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


Patti_Kake replies on 9/16/2016 11:51 am:
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Thank you, VM! How very nice of you to say.

I'm HOPING to meet some guys, but so far it appears as if the caliber of guys who have sent me emails lurk in the shadows just waiting for new women to show up and then 'pounce' on them as quick as they can ... without so much as a thought for anything other than gratifying their own basic needs!

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gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
9/18/2016 3:19 pm

 Of course a hottie like you is going to get her inbox filled.
Thoughts from the Garden...


Patti_Kake replies on 9/18/2016 4:01 pm:
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Perhaps, but so far it's only been 'junk mail'!

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Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
9/19/2016 12:54 pm

 there are some women on here who would love to get the mail you do, just consider them a compliment and smile.


Patti_Kake replies on 9/20/2016 5:21 am:
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There's a big difference on many of the emails I get between "complimentary" and "just plain crude"!

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ProfessorNaught 111M
Ask me for a photo
1406 posts
12/11/2016 3:42 pm

 On a dating site, let alone a swingers site where men outnumber women 10 to 1 and toads to decent men are at a ratio greater than 100 to 1, what should women expect?

Better to ignore the mail box and pursue their own interest. God knows its a smorgasborg of a selection - presuming they (women) have some skills in filtering out the trash.


Patti_Kake replies on 12/12/2016 7:46 am:
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Really?

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