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WHY, I LOVE the lifestyle.......why do YOU?  

sweethoneycum42 52F
29 posts
2/17/2017 2:27 am
WHY, I LOVE the lifestyle.......why do YOU?
I know that is a big statement, but for me it is true. I entered into this new world 6 years ago after 18 years of marriage, and I haven't looked back since. I learned tons my first few months on Find a Cougar , most good but not all.
I have learned to be open, honest, and comfortable about who I am,whatever my kinks or fetishes are. The great thing about this lifestyle is you are not alone, just be smart about who you listen too.

So my answer to the question is because on a whole I have found honest caring people in the lifestyle that do not and will not judge you
Horny45152 54M
273 posts
2/17/2017 2:56 am

 nice pic - no reason to judge someone...every one has there own things they like or dislike. just gotta be your self


camperdude_69 63M
4641 posts
2/17/2017 3:21 am

 very nice


banjo6660 57M
615 posts
2/17/2017 4:27 am

 Why would anyone want to judge but sadly they do, what you do behind closed doors is no one business but your own and you owe no one an explication


luv2suk1966 63M/57F
1927 posts
2/17/2017 4:34 am

 After over 30 years of marriage, I feel being on a sex site really spices up our sex life! Knowing that younger, hot men want me makes me horny all the time! And of course, Hubby reaps the benefits!!
Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
2/17/2017 5:03 am

 I have seen or heard of a number of things people on here that I would not. Either because I just do not find it sexy or exciting or for a few that hit my buttons in the wrong way. I do know that just because it is not for me that I need judge the person.
Have a great day and keep having good sexy fun.
If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


brandygirasol 55T
673 posts
2/17/2017 6:24 am

 While I Don't Care For Quick One Time Flings- With This Lifestyle I Can Have A Small Circle Of Male Lovers To Have FUN Wiith On Occation... And After The FUN Is Over None Of Us Have To Deal With A Full Time Relationship Until We Next Hook Up. Guess What I Prefer Is Semi Regular FUCK BUDDYS


Milfhuntkinky69 61M
8 posts
2/20/2017 2:46 am

 Well said, , be yourself, that is all we can do, , , wish more people where as open and honest like you ,


backagain54 69M

3/19/2018 2:04 pm

 I have been away for awhile since my wife died, but I remember how freeing it felt. While most people would judge you harshly for these find of activities and you therefore need to keep you interests hidden, within the lifestyle you are out in the open without judgement. It's wonderful. The sex can be fabulous and I really hav met some nice people I considered friends.


A1LOVER2004 50M  
177 posts
1/8/2019 6:25 pm

 Because i like many different types of women and sex. There is no way to possible find in ONE person. I join the lifestyle when i was 20. It's been almost 30 years and i'm showing no signs of slowing down. I love variety and learning new things. Most of all i just love all the sexiness that women possess!!!.......I have many many stories if you ever care to hear!!!


NoDramaHere2021 50M
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8 posts
6/28/2021 1:00 pm

 i like the mask


sweetime523 65M

6/30/2021 4:54 am

 I would never judge you,I think you are incredible.I think it would be great to meet you.


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