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How obvious is this to you; normal women want it, too?  

Sebastyne 48F
0 posts
3/19/2017 8:35 pm
How obvious is this to you; normal women want it, too?


I had a bit of an epiphany this morning. I came to realize that it is not at all clear to all of us, in the most profound way possible, that you don't need a genetic defect or daddy issues to grow up into a woman who wants sex... With MEN. That any normal woman wants love and sex the same way any man wants love and sex, that closeness and awe that it all is. The magic.

And it is not like: "yeah I like sex" with the same tonality as a dieter says "I like vegetables..." It's the same as "Yeah I like chocolate..." Women like it, they want it, they NEED it every bit as much as men do, NORMAL women do... It's just that they're afraid of showing it because they fear that label of a slut and they fear they'll lose your respect for them if they put out too easily.

It's been always obvious to me that I like sex, but I've also think that other women are not that crazy about it. That they simply... tolerate it, or they like to have it occasionally (when drunk and feeling particularly wild), and that their need for a man is more a provider kind of thing... While I, the special one, wanted sex for the sake of sex, and that I loved the closeness with men simply for the love of the beauty of the male body and the beauty of men in general.

Of course, I too fall in love with the special men, but that's beside the point of the post. We all know women want sex with the special ones, but I do think they'd truly want sex with freaking strangers if they were coaxed... And here's the other thing:

Women get ignited by a different trigger than men do. Men see a good looking girl and they get aroused. I don't know - maybe this works both ways, but I'm sure it works this way; Men see a girl, a girl feels his desire for her, the energy ignites and she wants to give him his satisfaction; that would be the normal course of events. Now, it's interrupted by a million different social conditionings, but... Men in strictly anti-sexual nations want women to cover up from head to toe to help them feel their desire in control. Women want men to not leer at them, because being leered at is actually a HUGE turn on and a major ego boost, so if men want women to act chaste, they should not be leering!

I also think it is natural for a woman to want to sleep with a lot of men, and I also believe it is natural for people to form all kinds of polyrelationships, with soo many different varieties to it... But it all starts from realizing that NO, you DO NOT NEED TO buy a woman's love. You don't have to walk on water to be desirable for a woman. She wants you and she is just as confused about how to make you hers, as you are about how to make her yours... We are all confused because one, blatantly obvious misunderstanding between genders...

They do want it.

Ask women if you don't believe it.

Your mother wants it.

Your sister wants it...

and hell, here's the kicker:

your (will) want it too.

A1LOVER2004 50M  
177 posts
3/21/2017 1:59 pm

ALL WOMEN WANT IT BUT LADIES DON'T ALWAYS SHOW IT.


RuggedMaster 55M
28 posts
3/22/2017 5:14 am

That was brilliant Sebs There are a few of us about, that know this... all too well


Sebastyne 48F

3/22/2017 5:49 am

Yeah it's funny, I guess I thought there are women who don't want it, THE OTHERS, or who... Well, I guess some women fear it because they want it, or want it even though they fear it, so fear is just an obstacle, not a notion of whether they do or not... But anyway. Funny to never really think about that.


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