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To Cam or Not to Cam, That is the Question  

Sweet1Annie 56F
20 posts
9/15/2017 10:58 am
To Cam or Not to Cam, That is the Question


I have gotten a few requests "to Cam" and I need some input as to what might be a good way to do this.

I have a webcam, but I have never used it. I believe I have the technology.

Does this usually also mean talking? (I am much better at writing then talking)

What do men really want to see? Is this nude to start or strip poker style?

What are the benefits and downsides? What should I avoid?

Suggestions welcome.

peterlikesplay2 67M
461 posts
9/15/2017 2:07 pm

You might find camming a fun experience...but it's your show...and others will try to be directors....don't let them ruin your fun..It's your show , your rules... enjoy yourself


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/15/2017 3:02 pm

I felt the same way at first about camming and you have to do what feels comfortable for you. I find that men like nudity, but the men that I have watch my cam, they enjoy my music, and my teasing. I always feel like you have to leave them wanting more if that makes sense. I hope you find what makes you comfortable on cam and have lots of fun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Wok2016 42M  
599 posts
9/15/2017 3:13 pm

I agree with all of the above, you're in charge.

If you want to type instead of talking, do it.
If you want to wear a parka, mitts and a touque the whole time do it.
Or if you want to wear a night gown, two piece lingerie set, or fishnet one piece, do it!!!
If you want to take suggestions from the audience, do it.

Do what makes you feel good and what you feel comfortable with, and it will be a good experience!


c0cksr1ng 61M
2960 posts
9/15/2017 6:11 pm

All of the above have great info but some people can really be asses and say thing to try and control what and how you do it and they may even call you names that are not so flattering , the best way to do your cam is to do as you want and respond to only the ones you would like to respond to, and just write if that makes you comfortable ...I would prefer to mute my mic until you are comfortable ...remember if your mic is live they can hear you if you are on the phone or are talking to others .
I am not trying to scare you with this info , just trying to give info the others have not shared.


clittywhisperer1 59M
1415 posts
9/15/2017 6:28 pm

keep some eyebleach handy for the disgusting idiot comments made by single digit IQ losers. lol but ignore them and just have fun


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