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Question for ladies about being in public
Question for ladies about being in public There is a nice looking lady I see where I ride my bike, I recognize her from this site, she has a tat. She is always alone and walking when I see her, like me she is married. Is it okay for me to stop and chat with her, do I let her know I recognize her from the site? |
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6/11/2021 9:55 am |
what to do?
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I was confronted a couple of weeks ago, recognized at the grocery store. It wasn't an unpleasant experience, in fact the young gentleman was quite nice, and we chatted for a few minutes. I did rush home though and immediately hid all my face pictures, realized if he recognized me, no telling how many others have and it might have not been as pleasant had they appoached me. It's actually kind of disconcerting to realize there are several local people I am am likely to run across every day, and that while they could recognize me, due to their lack of facial pictures, I would never recognize them. The usual protocol, as least from what I understand is to never approach someone except through the site. Is there any way you can contact her through here? Points for IM perhaps? Does she have a blog?
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You know that's a tough one there, strike up a conversation but let her mention the site before you say you know she is a member here.
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I had a member recognize we talked all went good now we talk regularly
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if they see us on here there doing the same thing we are doing on here so we dont care if they see us or not
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6/11/2021 12:08 pm |
I agree with Lust4life. Do not approach her in public. I can't even imagine how awkward and disconcerting it would be to be approached out of the blue in public by someone from this site. If you want to send her a message and explain the situation at least you give her the opportunity of refusing without personal contact
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I say be polite and yes let them know. Never know where it could lead too ! I did it once to someone I knew that came onto this site. It worked out shortly later to { What you doing this weekend } ? It ended up I was doing them !
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6/11/2021 2:11 pm |
Just stop and ask her directions to the Holiday Inn.......LOL!
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I think I would let them know so it isn't a suprise later. Besides, like someone said, it might work out.
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Well talk to her but do not mention you saw her on this site,unless she brings it up
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We've seen people from Find a Cougar from our area. We didn't make contact and they didn't seem like they recognized us.
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Give it a shot. Might work out for both of you to have some exciting times.
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