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Submissive or dominant?  

MmYesPleaseMm 48M/44F
9 posts
10/18/2018 11:02 am
Submissive or dominant?


Which do you prefer?

Twoplusme3or 45M
63 posts
10/18/2018 4:21 pm

I would love to be told what to do!!


Freeonereturns 63F

10/18/2018 7:31 pm

I'm a switch with other women, that said I wish it was more 50/50. I'm in the Domme role must times.

Guys it a 50/50 give and take or there's going to be problems. I will not accept a Dom, not one that doesn't give me full respect. I have a special strap-on I use just for them.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
10/18/2018 9:58 pm

I prefer equals to me in my life. Submissive offends me, as no woman should feel they must submit to a man. A Dominant woman means a submissive man, and no man should be made to be submissive to a woman either.
If in play, then I have no opinion. I have seen both sides as a member of the largest BDSM club in NOLA for 7 years, prior to moving away. Many were doing it as play, but there were quite a few that had opted to be one or the other 24/7 at home & in life. I found the 24/7 folks strange at best.
My parents were D/s thru all of their married life, in private of course since it was not fashionable to admit those preferences publicaly until after her death in '99. She discussed this openly with me a year before her death, my dad on the other hand refused saying it was none of my business. To each his or her own, I remain an equal to any partner I get involved with.


Nunu232323 38M/57F

12/6/2019 10:02 pm

?* dominemt


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