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What's with the ghosting?
What's with the ghosting? We've met some wonderful people on this site, and we've had some excellent conversations! As a couple, we always respond together, and we always try and respond to every email. In fact, as a courtesy, if we chat with someone and the interest isn't there, we always respectfully decline. Seems like a common courtesy. The one thing we'll never understand, however, is the ghosting. We talk for a bit, exchange pictures to establish chemistry, exchange texts and chat for a bit to weed out the oddballs (there's a few) - and we all decide it's a good time to meet... ...and then... ghosted. It's actually happened a few times, and many others have also noticed this behavior. Not sure why someone would invest all that time and effort and simply disappear without the courtesy of a reply. Why do you think this is? Cold feet? Please share your experiences as well. We'd love to hear them. |
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It's an unfortunate phenomenon of which both men and women (whether singles or couples) are guilty. I think that someone invests in that behaviour because they see Find a Cougar as a fantasy world and they lack the courage to make it a reality. I'm glad to hear that the two of you are responsive. One of my problems is my inability to initiate e-mails or to respond to e-mails due to Find a Cougar restrictions. That's why I tend to us IMC more.
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1 post 10/19/2018 7:09 pm |
Also happens to pretenders... they pretend to be something they wished they could allow themselves to do or be... From the get-go, these pretenders know very well that they will never take on the opportunity to act out their fantasy... So they just pretend.. to be.. for a fleeting moment during which they wish they had the means to finally act it out. .... Makes sense?
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