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Standing Up For Yourself
Standing Up For Yourself Sometimes in life, you get caught in a relationship with someone that turns sour. All the sudden there is nothing about you that they like. Nothing that you do is good enough. You find yourself afraid to be yourself. Afraid to be the person you thought they found wonderful. Red flags, Red flags big time. Red flags already been down that road of being controlled. Then you have to gather all the strength from your boot straps and stand up for yourself. Now I know there is always a lot of room for improvement in myself. We all can always improve, no one is perfect. But at 57 years old, I am who I am. I fought long and damn hard to get to where I even liked myself. I have overcome so much, and still am overcoming even more. I am standing up for the woman I am now. I couldnt as a , but I do now. I even told my self that nothing that happened to her was her fault. I realized that inner pain. But I do like the woman I am. I am kind, loving, caring and will have your back. But I am not going to be told how to be. My husband finally understands that I do have needs that he hasnt been able to and now cant meet. He wishes he could, but knows that I will occasionally have a lover that I see to fulfill that part of my life. No one is a bad person. Just sometimes you find that your lifestyles and the people you are is too different. I am not going to morph into someone else's idea of who I should be. But you do always learn and take away something positive. Everything and everyone is a lesson or a blessing. Ann *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me* |
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Very well said
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You are an adult, can make your own mind up what will make you happy. for all the work you do for yourself and other. Your not the only one here in your boots. We all are here for one or many reasons. Yet we are here for each other too.have a wonderful night and a better day tomorrow XOXO.
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8/31/2021 6:34 pm |
You speak the truth.
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" My husband finally understands that I do have needs that he hasnt been able to and now cant meet." I find it Very Interesting that Women get Full support for this sort of thing !! BUT; If I'm or Other Men are doing doing the Same Thing with Support of Our Wife or Other ; We GET CHASTISED FOR IT by Some Females On Here !!!! Just My Humble Opinion !!!! 🤠
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Thank you so much, you probably were wondering why I was changing so fast. I feel so much better. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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Very well said *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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You are an adult, can make your own mind up what will make you happy. for all the work you do for yourself and other. Your not the only one here in your boots. We all are here for one or many reasons. Yet we are here for each other too.have a wonderful night and a better day tomorrow XOXO. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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You speak the truth. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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" My husband finally understands that I do have needs that he hasnt been able to and now cant meet." I find it Very Interesting that Women get Full support for this sort of thing !! BUT; If I'm or Other Men are doing doing the Same Thing with Support of Our Wife or Other ; We GET CHASTISED FOR IT by Some Females On Here !!!! Just My Humble Opinion !!!! 🤠 *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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9/6/2021 6:06 am |
Nice post.
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