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Let Me Explain
Let Me Explain I took down my blog about Polyamorous, because I think some of you got the wrong impression of me. I am not for the next man, or another piece. I talking about if you are in a marriage or committed relationship but find that your partner is unable to give you all you need. Rather then destroy a long term marriage, I think sometimes it is better to seek a additional person. In my case that my spouse will never be able to again make full love to me. That there are just many aspects that even if everything right between us, he can never give me. And I think everyone should have the freedom to be totally themselves. Not what society or peers think they should be. Perhaps it is not a conventional approach but it is yours. What a beautiful feeling to be able to be your true self without persecution. Having said that, today I supposed to meet a friend for lunch. Just lunch, but I had this gut feeling that this might not go well. Then he texted me that he sitting at the bar having beers. Red flag for me. First impression you me to have of you is with beer breath? I wanted to meet you, not the altered you. I canceled and not going there again. This is the very reason I start as friends first with everyone and insist on a platonic first meet. Hope everyone is having a wonderful day, Sexy hugs, Ann *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me* |
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Beer breath? 🤔 Yep, I hear you on THAT one. I guess if both of you have had a few then things are balanced but when it's one-sided... *ugh* ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Perhaps he was getting some Dutch courage with the beers.
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i hear you. in my case wife just has lost the urge for sex and me not wanting to lose everything else we have abstain to self satisfaction how ever if the rigtht situation ever came along who knows
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Just lunch or coffee is a good way to start. I understand why you took the polyamorous post down. So many have no idea that it does not mean slut. I also agree with your idea of not destroying a long term marriage due to lack of sex and that lack can do it more than adding another to the mix. May you find a nearby someone to be a friend and then more than one. Sending big naked hugs to you. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well.
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having a wonderful day, goodbuddy781
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HERE !!! HERE !!! MAYBE some gals will realize that there are circumstances why a gal seeks pleasure for what a spouse can not provide !!!! I have mentioned my circumstance for seeking my pleasure and being told too seek it but get lam-blasted by some gals for being a cheater !!!! He can't perform, you can !! She can't perform, I can !! Where's the difference Gals ??? 🤠
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It sucks that you had to take it down, I know there's many on this site who have issues with conflating polyamory with easy. And, I don't blame you for the beer guy. This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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First meetings should always be public, and without expectations. If the chemistry is right, THEN figure out the next steps. Not every meet is going to shoot sparks either. I've met a few women and couples one or both were just testing the waters, or the ones where one is just trying to make the other happy by playing along. Better to just enjoy the meeting, agree it's to be just friendly, and move on. Avoid the drama.
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I'm sorry to felt you had to take our post down. You should be able to be you and share what you want here. PS- I'd never meet you with beer breath.
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Beer breath? 🤔 Yep, I hear you on THAT one. I guess if both of you have had a few then things are balanced but when it's one-sided... *ugh* *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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Perhaps he was getting some Dutch courage with the beers. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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i hear you. in my case wife just has lost the urge for sex and me not wanting to lose everything else we have abstain to self satisfaction how ever if the rigtht situation ever came along who knows *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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Doesnt that make you mad. I think it is so unfair and selfish of the other person to decide they no longer want to and therefore you are to stifle your natural sexual energy evermore? Fuck that *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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Just lunch or coffee is a good way to start. I understand why you took the polyamorous post down. So many have no idea that it does not mean slut. I also agree with your idea of not destroying a long term marriage due to lack of sex and that lack can do it more than adding another to the mix. May you find a nearby someone to be a friend and then more than one. Sending big naked hugs to you. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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having a wonderful day, *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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HERE !!! HERE !!! MAYBE some gals will realize that there are circumstances why a gal seeks pleasure for what a spouse can not provide !!!! I have mentioned my circumstance for seeking my pleasure and being told too seek it but get lam-blasted by some gals for being a cheater !!!! He can't perform, you can !! She can't perform, I can !! Where's the difference Gals ??? 🤠 *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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It sucks that you had to take it down, I know there's many on this site who have issues with conflating polyamory with easy. And, I don't blame you for the beer guy. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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First meetings should always be public, and without expectations. If the chemistry is right, THEN figure out the next steps. Not every meet is going to shoot sparks either. I've met a few women and couples one or both were just testing the waters, or the ones where one is just trying to make the other happy by playing along. Better to just enjoy the meeting, agree it's to be just friendly, and move on. Avoid the drama. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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I'm sorry to felt you had to take our post down. You should be able to be you and share what you want here. PS- I'd never meet you with beer breath. *Creative Outlets of All Forms thru Me*
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