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At a Business meeting I realized the person I met with is on AFF!
At a Business meeting I realized the person I met with is on AFF! |
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IT's happened both sides for me. The first time was a work situation and was about 16 years ago the first time I was on this site. I did not have any pictures posted for that reason. I was a manager in a mostly male industry, all I needed was for one of my coworkers to see me on here. So, one of the men that worked for me sent me an email. With a picture of him on a piece of equipment at work, and was .....ahem.......exposing himself. He was also married although his profile did not reflect that. I never mentioned it, to him or anyone else we worked with. Second time was a few months ago, This time around on here, I figured I had nothing to hide , am retired, single, no reason to be discrete, so my face picture was my main profile picture. I was at a grocery store and a youngun, well he was in his late 20s I'd say ,followed me to my car and engaged in conversation with me. Nothing threatening or anything, he just mentioned he had seen me on the site. I just chalked it up to youth. And learned a lesson, dont put your face picture out there unless you're willing to be recognized by people you might not be able to recognize yourself. It could have been much worse......... Honestly, if I didn't have other more explicit photos on here, I'd have no problem with my face picture being visible on my profile. After all, it's on other "dating" sites, heehee.
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The woman I "saw" works in a local coffee shop. I've watched her on cam a few times, chatted with her on there and through IM. I think it's unwise to bring up something personal like what happens on this site to someone in the "real" world. I mentioned it in an IM a few days later, and she laughed and said she'd wondered the same thing, was that was me in her coffee shop. She's yet to agree to meet for a drink so I'm not pushing anything.
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7/29/2021 4:08 pm |
Might as well go for it
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I have boundaries between personal and professional. Strict boundaries...for me its not wise to have them cross~~ If i saw someone here that i knew, it would stay in that boundary box in my head ....
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I have boundaries between personal and professional. Strict boundaries...for me its not wise to have them cross~~ If i saw someone here that i knew, it would stay in that boundary box in my head ....
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Might as well go for it
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Information can be ammunition in the wrong hands. You can leave me a message here
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It would most likely be a desaster, never mix personal and buisness. especiall this personal buisness ..... Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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That's pretty juicy! Have you corresponded with them anonymously?
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IT's happened both sides for me. The first time was a work situation and was about 16 years ago the first time I was on this site. I did not have any pictures posted for that reason. I was a manager in a mostly male industry, all I needed was for one of my coworkers to see me on here. So, one of the men that worked for me sent me an email. With a picture of him on a piece of equipment at work, and was .....ahem.......exposing himself. He was also married although his profile did not reflect that. I never mentioned it, to him or anyone else we worked with. Second time was a few months ago, This time around on here, I figured I had nothing to hide , am retired, single, no reason to be discrete, so my face picture was my main profile picture. I was at a grocery store and a youngun, well he was in his late 20s I'd say ,followed me to my car and engaged in conversation with me. Nothing threatening or anything, he just mentioned he had seen me on the site. I just chalked it up to youth. And learned a lesson, dont put your face picture out there unless you're willing to be recognized by people you might not be able to recognize yourself. It could have been much worse......... Honestly, if I didn't have other more explicit photos on here, I'd have no problem with my face picture being visible on my profile. After all, it's on other "dating" sites, heehee. What was the coworkers reaction to this when he shared this employees profile with you?
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The woman I "saw" works in a local coffee shop. I've watched her on cam a few times, chatted with her on there and through IM. I think it's unwise to bring up something personal like what happens on this site to someone in the "real" world. I mentioned it in an IM a few days later, and she laughed and said she'd wondered the same thing, was that was me in her coffee shop. She's yet to agree to meet for a drink so I'm not pushing anything.
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Only once about ten years ago. I saw a woman in a restaurant that I was at, and I recognized her as someone from here. She was with someone, so I said nothing. In the future even if that happens again, I will keep it to myself, because chances are I have messaged them in the far past and for whatever reason got no further than a message.
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It would most likely be a desaster, never mix personal and buisness. especiall this personal buisness ..... Regardless, there is no way I am mentioning it any time soon.
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Only once about ten years ago. I saw a woman in a restaurant that I was at, and I recognized her as someone from here. She was with someone, so I said nothing. In the future even if that happens again, I will keep it to myself, because chances are I have messaged them in the far past and for whatever reason got no further than a message. I have seen close friends on here who have confided in me about problems in the marriages and I still have not said anything about seeing their profiles.
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Two stories...I was contacted by a man who, when I looked at his pictures, turned out to be someone I knew from my bike club. He’s quite a bit older than I and I was kind of grossed out by the situation and didn’t reply. I hope he didn’t realize who *I* was. I don’t have a face picture on my profile so hopefully not. Another time , I was having a first meet with a guy and for some reason he looked very familiar. After some discussion we realized we both worked for the same organization. We were in different departments and our office building had at least a thousand employees, but I must have seen him in the elevator from time to time. It’s 15 yeats later and we’re still friends.
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Two stories...I was contacted by a man who, when I looked at his pictures, turned out to be someone I knew from my bike club. He’s quite a bit older than I and I was kind of grossed out by the situation and didn’t reply. I hope he didn’t realize who *I* was. I don’t have a face picture on my profile so hopefully not. Another time , I was having a first meet with a guy and for some reason he looked very familiar. After some discussion we realized we both worked for the same organization. We were in different departments and our office building had at least a thousand employees, but I must have seen him in the elevator from time to time. It’s 15 yeats later and we’re still friends. It's amazing the secret lives the people around us lead. Your second story had such a great outcome! The two of you must have had such a good laugh when you two realized why you seemed familiar to each other.
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Oh one fun way of hooking up to see if he as good in his job as he is showing off that mazing young body,we were an item for several years,he fixed up my rentals while i fixed his sexual needs and certainly got mates rates mmmm
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