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Is a Blow job enough???  

Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:44 pm

    Quoting WyoCowboy7751:
    I'd consider it a form of Mutual Masturbation , if I can FINGER Her at the same time
Oh you a bad boy. But I would have you so wound up you wouldn't be able to concentrate on pleasuring me.....


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:45 pm

    Quoting Creadence70:
    I’ll take a BJ over a fuck every time !
Well there you go. BTW nice cock for a 99 year old man...


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:46 pm

    Quoting CleavageFan4U:
    There is no fixed answer. Somedays "just" a blowjob is enough. Somedays it would leave me wanting more. Somedays just watching each other get ourselves off might be fun. Somedays I long to see my partner with another person and have them watch me do the same.

    I personally have NO problem being someone's fuck toy, and some nights I just want to be their cuddle buddie too. It's all about variety.

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Very true and sounds perfect. Thank you again for your feedback. A wise man you are.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:47 pm

    Quoting profcoquin27bis:
    I will be happy to be used as a toy for your pleasure
Now you talking. I love a man who all wants to make me happy.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:49 pm

    Quoting Lkn4funwith2:
    A blowjob is more like a quickie, and is not satisfying enough. If a woman loves sucking cock so much that she enjoys sneaking a bj at a public or semi-public place, then awesome! It depends on her attitude... if she does it just to avoid having sex or to have him go away, then she is not worth spending any more time with. There are more women out there who really do love having sex, so the search continues.
Now Now you must not have had a BJ like I give. I promise you, you would be satisfied. I would never leave a man longing for more. When I am done all he wants to do is sleep..... Hope your search is successful soon.


IfWeHadaWish 63M/60F

4/29/2021 1:50 pm

yup, sometimes just cumming is all i crave. NO work, lay back and let a good mouth suck in and down.
I love watching a woman suck pussy juice off me, my loves to suck another womans juices off me too.

When we play, everyone gets pleasure


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:54 pm

    Quoting mdfor3:
    For us, it depends on the situation. Only a blowjob can be such a tease! Or "only" a blowjob can be a sweet reward! LOL. Who knew that blowjobs can be so situational?

    And if you happen to be in control, well, then, it really isn't a choice now at all, is it...
Very true... But good to know that most men on here seeing it as a good thing though. But you are right as with all things it just depends on the situation.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 1:55 pm

    Quoting IfWeHadaWish:
    yup, sometimes just cumming is all i crave. NO work, lay back and let a good mouth suck in and down.
    I love watching a woman suck pussy juice off me, my loves to suck another womans juices off me too.

    When we play, everyone gets pleasure
LOL exactly just lay back and enjoy. Thank you for the feedback. I love hearing how other couples play.


NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
4/29/2021 3:46 pm

It all depends on how much time we have. If we got the time why not do all we can. if she wants to suck me and make me cum I'll take it. As a matter of preference I want it all. But, I will always take what is offered.


kamaruhl3 63M
4985 posts
4/29/2021 4:12 pm

bj yummy but want to watch girl get pleasure too


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 5:27 pm

    Quoting NJGUY08090:
    It all depends on how much time we have. If we got the time why not do all we can. if she wants to suck me and make me cum I'll take it. As a matter of preference I want it all. But, I will always take what is offered.
Makes sense. I like and want it all too.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/29/2021 5:28 pm

    Quoting kamaruhl3:
    bj yummy but want to watch girl get pleasure too
Yeessss great answer


BruceWayne983 40M
143 posts
4/30/2021 2:21 am

Blowjob alone can definitely be enough sometimes. If the woman is really into it and enjoying it as much (or nearly) as I am then it can be pretty intense. The women who love it also tend to have a better technique which of course feels better too. It depends on how turned on I am and how good the woman is - usually I can cum from a blowjob alone or at least bj+hands, but only if I can't cum for whatever reason then I would want some pussy to help me finish


Heels_N_Squeals 50F
68 posts
4/30/2021 3:07 am

It all really narrows down to the two partners in the end. People are all over the map on how much they do or don't like something more than something else. My personal opinions are these:

* Communication is key to any healthy and successful relationship! Talk these things out openly with your other half. Depending on how long you've two have or have not been together, you may or may not know what turns him on more than other things. Talk these things over, experiment and know what your partner enjoys a lot, what he doesn't enjoy at all or what he finds mediocre.

* It is not a bad thing to have balancing acts in your relationship. Things do not always have to be 50/50 in the bedroom per each sexual encounter, but just be sure that your overall give and take sexual relationship remains 50/50 (if that makes any sense). I'd say that it's an honor to want to pleasure your partner at times without any reciprocation expected. Sex doesn't always have to be intercourse....not by any means! Just try to keep give and take sessions balanced and not always one-sided.

* Another key point to stress in a healthy relationship is VARIETY! There's nothing that dulls down a sexual relationship more than predictability. Intercourse each and every time (or in the very same position or sequence of positions) gets old. Mix things up and do it often! Allow for solely a bj night....and vice versa another night for oral to only you. Mix up positions. Try new ones. Surprise each other with something they didn't see coming. Have him and you wear a variety of different bedroom outfits. Role play. Or whatever else may float your boat. It's not always about intercourse each and every time. Me and ex boyfriends used to do a variety of different things to keep sex fun, enjoyable, lively and exciting! Have you ever tried mutual masturbation sessions? Toys? What about tittyfucks? Just experiment, talk together with your partner and roll with what turns out. I certainly don't think that any man is honestly going to be complaining about getting a bj or to be sexually "used" by his female partner. Lol. So sure, it's fine. You can do your thing, regardless if he knows that you're fantasizing of other things along the way. Roll with it and have fun. In the end, it's all done for love and care for one another.


magictonguesc13 55M
56 posts
4/30/2021 7:54 am

It doesn't matter as long as EVERYONE is on the "same page" and in the mood! ....and I usually like to return the favor by using my tongue for oral too!!!!


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/30/2021 12:42 pm

    Quoting BruceWayne983:
    Blowjob alone can definitely be enough sometimes. If the woman is really into it and enjoying it as much (or nearly) as I am then it can be pretty intense. The women who love it also tend to have a better technique which of course feels better too. It depends on how turned on I am and how good the woman is - usually I can cum from a blowjob alone or at least bj+hands, but only if I can't cum for whatever reason then I would want some pussy to help me finish
Understood and oh do I ever love giving my guy a BJ! I can literally cum from the excitement of him blowing his load in my mouth. I am addicted to it.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/30/2021 12:46 pm

    Quoting Heels_N_Squeals:
    It all really narrows down to the two partners in the end. People are all over the map on how much they do or don't like something more than something else. My personal opinions are these:

    * Communication is key to any healthy and successful relationship! Talk these things out openly with your other half. Depending on how long you've two have or have not been together, you may or may not know what turns him on more than other things. Talk these things over, experiment and know what your partner enjoys a lot, what he doesn't enjoy at all or what he finds mediocre.

    * It is not a bad thing to have balancing acts in your relationship. Things do not always have to be 50/50 in the bedroom per each sexual encounter, but just be sure that your overall give and take sexual relationship remains 50/50 (if that makes any sense). I'd say that it's an honor to want to pleasure your partner at times without any reciprocation expected. Sex doesn't always have to be intercourse....not by any means! Just try to keep give and take sessions balanced and not always one-sided.

    * Another key point to stress in a healthy relationship is VARIETY! There's nothing that dulls down a sexual relationship more than predictability. Intercourse each and every time (or in the very same position or sequence of positions) gets old. Mix things up and do it often! Allow for solely a bj night....and vice versa another night for oral to only you. Mix up positions. Try new ones. Surprise each other with something they didn't see coming. Have him and you wear a variety of different bedroom outfits. Role play. Or whatever else may float your boat. It's not always about intercourse each and every time. Me and ex boyfriends used to do a variety of different things to keep sex fun, enjoyable, lively and exciting! Have you ever tried mutual masturbation sessions? Toys? What about tittyfucks? Just experiment, talk together with your partner and roll with what turns out. I certainly don't think that any man is honestly going to be complaining about getting a bj or to be sexually "used" by his female partner. Lol. So sure, it's fine. You can do your thing, regardless if he knows that you're fantasizing of other things along the way. Roll with it and have fun. In the end, it's all done for love and care for one another.
Agree. I just like to hear other men's and women's views on what they consider "okay". I have no complaints and so far he doesn't either. Thank you for stopping by. I love the feedback.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/30/2021 12:46 pm

    Quoting magictonguesc13:
    It doesn't matter as long as EVERYONE is on the "same page" and in the mood! ....and I usually like to return the favor by using my tongue for oral too!!!!
Well there you go... Thank you. I agree 100%


wolfmartins9 43M

4/30/2021 6:13 pm

i wantt making love to you baby


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
4/30/2021 6:37 pm


bitchmaker1 67M

4/30/2021 6:44 pm

My ex-wife always had the preference of giving a blow job every day and maybe intercourse once a week.Everyone has something that they like better.As long as you are both happy I see no problem.


WhoWantssumfunnn 44M
30 posts
5/1/2021 4:08 pm

I prefer to be the one going down on my lady makes me get hard as a rock


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/1/2021 6:04 pm

    Quoting bitchmaker1:
    My ex-wife always had the preference of giving a blow job every day and maybe intercourse once a week.Everyone has something that they like better.As long as you are both happy I see no problem.
Very true. Thank you for the feedback.


Ellasboudoir 59F
526 posts
5/1/2021 6:05 pm

    Quoting WhoWantssumfunnn:
    I prefer to be the one going down on my lady makes me get hard as a rock
Understood. But this is what I desire so each to their own I suppose. Good for your girl though.


tallcreekgent 57M
2 posts
5/1/2021 7:25 pm

hell no a good sub will always want to suck her dom cock with intercorce and if you want to taste anther woman on his cock tell you do and dont be scared to tell him what you what cause he just might give it to you do you like tasting your own your cum m=on his cock?


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