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Jamie, standard member can't read your profile
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Hi Jamie, Unfortunately this site is not what it used to be when it first launched. Since then the site has been over run by, " Bots, Fakes, and people pretending to be anything but what they actually are". That being said you will get a lot of contact from drooling men and women alike. Like any site you need to be aware of who is contacting you from the other keyboard whether it be for online exploration and fun or real time meets. Yes a lot of the men will try and take advantage of you at your age.... thinking your naive and controllable. But a post like this shows your wise beyond your years and confident in what you want from the site. Regardless of what anyone tells you always trust your instincts and be true to yourself. You will weed through a 100 bad contacts before you find one worthy of your time so keep that in mind. I did read your profile in its entirety ..... twice. Hope this helps and that I answered your questions. Best Regards.... SIG
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1. the instafuck mentality permeates the site and others like it 2. std members can't see your profile, aside from what is contained in the Quickview popup. hope this helps and welcome to A**F**F where all of your dreams can come true
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Standard can’t read profile so that may be why. I won’t contact most since not being able to read their profile I’m not gonna get them pissed off. Put something in your status to make it at least clear what you want. Hopefully will reduce the crap you receive. Good luck. MDonson Kiik Myonguy
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Yeah, that's probably par for the course. Most standard members can't read your profile to get to know anything about you, so you get a one-size fits you message instead of something personal. Good luck!
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There are decent people on this site, but there are many examples of what may be called the baser face of humanity. It can be an interesting experiment in psychology, but you are going to expose yourself to a lot of abuse on this site.
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I'm not sure they want you to "jump in their arms" ,,, they want you to open your legs after saying "hi" ,, par for the course I'm afraid. Also you have no picture.. and your name is Jamie,, that could be construed as a man hiding behind a woman's profile.. just sayin
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Happy belated birthday! [image]
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The mechanics of the site and the way it's advertised or promoted create this atmosphere. You'll also find that too many can't deal with " no " as an answer regardless of how polite you are. It is sad. If you are willing to dig through the mess, there is the possibility of finding the pony. Stay strong. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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Yes quit a few want to meet and fuck right away. If a person can send a message I think they are able to read profiles. All that write me are paying members. Not all read my profile or have selective sight. Meaning see what they want and ignore the rest or think they are all that so what I want doesn't matter. Every one misses I am not meeting. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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Good afternoon and welcome to "Blogland here on Find a Cougar.airlink.... Fact, most of the guys that respond to you will not even read your profile, they only think with the "little" head. They did not listen to their Mum for manners.. It is factual that this happens to any and all . it is just what happens, Get thick skinned quickly and just start weeding out Mr. Rude and Mr. Crude, ban/block them without a second thought.. This is a good place, not as it should be but useable, patience and persistence will pay in the long run.. As has been said before by others, most members can't even read you profile.. create a blog and put your profile info in it and in your status, place a notice that profile info is in your blog.. So far all can read blogs. Have a nice day, all one can say is your mileage may be different from day to day.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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7/9/2021 11:19 am |
I want to give you support Jamie. You are totally correct in every way. The most frequent response I get if I hesitate to meet is 'well why did you join a site like this then'. Anyway, good for you!
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9/2/2021 5:15 pm |
Since I'm new and really only getting the hang of it can someone answer a question please. Is it the 'norm' here for every guy that contacts me to assume I'm gonna meet and jump right into his arms? OR follow his directive, totally disregarding my reasons for being here? OK, that was two, but you get the drift.
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This site is a joke as well as most of the people on it
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9/11/2021 3:41 pm |
Hear! Hear! Most guys can be rude. I have only been on a few days and already creeped out. Come On Guys!!!!!! Please read the profiles before messaging! And abide by our requests. Rants can be fun some times. Lol
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This sites become very fake and full of rude stupid people. Don’t let it discourage you though. If you’re for real and genuine I’d love to chat with you some time. I enjoy making friends and learning from them. Get in touch if you have the time.
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11/24/2021 3:29 am |
Guys have always been that way welcome to blogs
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There is a real good analogy. Kissing many frogs to find your prince... It is very much like that on this site, but not really so much kissing as chatting with...
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There are a lot more guys then females on this site so as long you have a pair of boobs and a pussy they will contact you regardless of why you are on here. Most of the guys just look at your picture and contact you they don't bother to read your profile just ignore them.
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