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What about a webcam category   4/8/2004

I'd love to meet women who want to interact via webcam. Maybe a webcam category should be added under the interests section ?


0 Comments, 6 Views, 48 Votes ,8.77 Score
How to get max satisfaction safe sex with multiple partners?   4/7/2004

Can anyone tell me how to have sex with muiltiple partners and at the same time it is safe?


0 Comments, 35 Views, 44 Votes ,7.39 Score
rm_CleveGuy03 40 M
1  Article
Sex with toys...   4/6/2004

What are some good ways to clean toys?? My girl always uses soap & water but I figure there has to be something better to disinfect them (we use them for anal & vaginal)


0 Comments, 21 Views, 32 Votes ,3.71 Score
rm_ravenfoxcpl 57 C
20  Articles
Add to your "safer sex"   4/6/2004

Just some words of advice as there are STDs that can be passed even when using condoms. HPV and Herpes are passed when contacted is made with the infected area and there are those viruses present. However, the way the viruses enter your body is through compromised skin. Razor rash, ingrown hairs, pimple, minor tears from sex etc are all types of compromised skin. To limit these, I ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 36 Votes ,8.85 Score
Safe Anal   4/5/2004

I am a 22/m. I was just wondering if anybody really knew if there is a way to have safe anal sex. I really want to try it but im afraid it isn't safe to do. I would like some suggestions on how to do it..thanks


0 Comments, 18 Views, 71 Votes ,8.64 Score
condoms..   4/3/2004

condoms do not always provide protection, i recently found out.some guys carry a wart virus, this you can catch thru anal, oral, and sex.its not detectable in men, buit it shows up in women as abnormal cells in side.or warts on outside.i caught this wart virus off mark4u355 , then he dumps me, and then i have to have laser and radiotherapy to erase them.so condoms do not protect you against ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 35 Votes ,7.82 Score
Safe Sex is doing it on webcam   3/29/2004

Safe sex can not be more safe than on webcam. I have done this for years and it is very giving and you hurt no one. It fun and you meet a lot of naked people, so don't be shy try. And Enjoy


0 Comments, 4 Views, 73 Votes ,6.58 Score
re: safe oral   3/27/2004

Concerning safe oral sex on a woman, you can purchase something called a dental dam. its like a square piece of condom that u stretch over the area. personally i dont like it, you dont get the same sensations, but i guess its teh same as a condom. that is the only safe way that i know of.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 34 Votes ,8.45 Score
SoldierofRoses 35 M
1  Article
Condom Cock Block?   3/27/2004

Okay, I've had sex quite a bit, but I've worn a condom every time. And every time I have sex, I have to fake cumming because I'm just NOT getting that stimulation. What's the deal? I'll admit that I'm best at missionary, and I know that might be a problem, but when I try something else, I totally fuck it up, and go back to missionary. Any ideas?


0 Comments, 31 Views, 20 Votes ,4.27 Score
shoey000 57 M
1  Article
Why don't they say what they like?   3/25/2004

I love to please women, really! I like nothing better than a shaven pussy coming on my face! So why don't women ever tell us what they like? If i ask them they always say "what would you like to do?" whereas I just want to know what they want! Some come on ladies, tell the men what you want, and lie back and enjoy it!


0 Comments, 7 Views, 61 Votes ,8.40 Score
jluv40006 44 M
1  Article
YOU WANTA DIE   3/24/2004

Haveing saft sex isnt hard. I know you dick is, but death is hardin then your dick could ever be. So to all you dumb asses that dont strap up , see ya in hell lol. strap up yall PEACE


0 Comments, 7 Views, 51 Votes ,3.62 Score
rm_shygirlAries 45 F
1  Article
re: safe sex   3/19/2004

the only time it is safe to have sex without a condom is if you and your partner are in a monogamous relationship AND you have both been tested for std/AIDS!!!


0 Comments, 11 Views, 34 Votes ,8.81 Score
Condoms...who hates them?   3/18/2004

Never had to use them...hate to wear them now. How do you deal with this? Do most women insist their partners use them?


1 Comments, 28 Views, 27 Votes ,5.03 Score
Gotta Play It Safe   3/15/2004

Safety Rules: If you're cheating on your girl with her sister don't fuck her in her house and don't call her house asking for the sister.....Don't fuck sisters of friends or ex's because that is the leading cause of bleed loss....last but not least don't have a one nighter with an ugly girl and give it your all because if she comes..then she's coming back for more.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
re:first time anal sex   3/14/2004

My first time with anal I was on top that way I could control the thrusting and how deep the penetration was. I've also done it side by side both ways are better if your man has a huge cock. Just remember to use alot of lube you can never have too much, and condomns if your having sex with more than one partner.


0 Comments, 171 Views, 114 Votes ,8.13 Score
safe than sorry...   3/11/2004

recently i caught a virus from a man on Find a Cougar had known him 2/3 years, he told me he had tests done , but i never saw results, so i trusted him, he told me he only had 3 girl friends and that he was clean, i trusted him, and we had unprotected sex for 2/3 years, last march after my smear test(pap) abnormal cells were found after a 6 month wait i had them burnt out and radio therapy to make ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
It's easy!   3/10/2004

Come on people! Safe sex can be easy to acheave, you just have to "make love" to one person and be sure that the other person is doing the same. (HA HA HA HA)


0 Comments, 8 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
bigthunder2002 73,1961 C
4  Articles
Do You??   3/8/2004

Do you practise safe sex? We have found alot of people really don't....and we were wondering just how many people do?


0 Comments, 7 Views, 45 Votes ,7.25 Score
best type of condom?   3/8/2004

What's your opinion on the best condom. I have tried a bunch, from trojan's (ok, but not great), to kimono (great feeling, but a bit on the small side) to my new favorite Sensations (slidey pouch on the end, cool metal case) Anyone else try out something good?


0 Comments, 30 Views, 64 Votes ,7.91 Score
RE: Condoms are because men are not careful where they stick it   3/5/2004

While I agree that safe sex is the only way to go, to blame it on just the men is truly wrong. We wash and keep ourselves just as clean as most women. And you can not at the same time blame just the women. It is both men and womens fault for the spread of these nasty little diseases. We both have to accept the fact that they are out there and need to use whatever means is necessary to stop ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 46 Votes ,8.04 Score
RE: Making sure its safe...   3/5/2004

Yes, you should ask and if it still is a possible problem, ask if they have been tested and do they have the results. And always use protection. Better to be safe then dead or wishing you were dead. Bruce


0 Comments, 27 Views, 19 Votes ,7.74 Score
Norfolk_NGood 52 M
1  Article
Swallowing Cum   3/4/2004

Ive had ladies tell me that they dont want to swallow my load. How can I get them to accept that its safe?


0 Comments, 27 Views, 70 Votes ,4.49 Score
rm_wetncurious3 38 F
1  Article
Safe Sex is the best sex   2/28/2004

I truly do believe that safe sex is the best sex, especially dealing with this site, where people like myself are only looking for a great time, and nothing more. You never know who on Find a Cougar has what. There are probably people on here with diseases that you never even heard of. So, what I'm trying to say is when you do decide to hook up with someone just for fun, fellas you better strap it up ...


1 Comments, 49 Views, 63 Votes ,8.36 Score
mtgluver 36 M
2  Articles
safe sex   2/27/2004

safe sex is only safe if you trust the person you are having sex with


0 Comments, 12 Views, 25 Votes ,5.23 Score
les couple -ups and down   2/24/2004

had an experience where a lesbian couple actually agreed to have sex with me. it was a night to remember but i found out i was infected with herpes even though i had protection on, only thing i can think of- skin contact when i change condoms...darn- dont think you've landed a great deal, cos you might not know what you're getting out of the deal, safe sex- stick with one partner.


0 Comments, 33 Views, 22 Votes ,6.73 Score
Stop   2/21/2004

Health organisations have been doing a particularly good job at educating the public on the importance of safe sex practices. Yes condoms do stop a majority of sexual transmitted diseases, however to some extent the effectiveness of condoms is reduced for two viral STD's, venereal warts and herpes. Both of which are contracted through the exchange of blood products and fluids, but as well ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 21 Votes ,7.09 Score
Enjoy sex if it's safe   2/20/2004

Please use condom in your sexual life.I am a medical student.So to give advise to people is my job.because AIDS and all sexual diseases can be danger in oral, vaginal, anal and also kissing.Select your partners carefully.Be careful.Know that if you have Hıv, you cant understand it until 6 mounths later.Be safe and be happy!Good luck.


0 Comments, 7 Views, 35 Votes ,7.64 Score
disco192 39 M
2  Articles
Trojan Supra Condoms   2/19/2004

I was just wondering what all you guys thought about trojan Supra condoms and if you liked them. <br> Thx


0 Comments, 27 Views, 18 Votes ,3.94 Score
Anal Lube or Saliva?   2/17/2004

Which is better for you? I like a my hole well luubed with vaseline before I take a cock in it.


0 Comments, 38 Views, 10 Votes ,5.97 Score
shougen 48 M
7  Articles
protect yourself   2/10/2004

whenever i have sex i always do enough protection. check your partner body, take a shower and i meant with soap all over. lastly always use a condom. <br> happy fucking around.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 29 Votes ,6.45 Score