Pardon my ignorance but I'm trying to feel my way here (no pun intended). I've always considered myself heterosexual. I've found the looks and feel of a woman attractive for as long as I can remember. I look at a man and I have none of those feelings. I don't look at a guy's ass and find it sexy, I recognize attractive men but I've never felt the desire to snuggle or kiss them. However... for the last several years I've found myself drawn to pictures of erect cocks. I find them sexually alluring and I fantasize about touching and sucking them. I see pictures on AAF without face shots and I see sexy hard cocks. The same profile will show a face shot of the same guy, complete with erect cock, and I'm turned off. Am I a weird one of is this a common affliction? I want very badly to experience my first taste of a man but I am confused by my ambivalence. Any thoughts from the bi guys here?
Why is it that between sexual partners within this site it seems necessary to talk about "Plowing a Ass" or "Blowing a Load" down a throat or even gagging someone with your girth? Why does there seem to be no common desire for intimacy rather than just brute lust and what appears to be degradation? As a life long Heterosexual I never considered treating a sexual partner to that type of dialogue. Rather there was a sharing and common desire for affection that predominated. Are all bi and Homosexual encounters viewed as such brutal and undignified activities? Can someone more experienced share their thoughts?